dowry mahar n old age marry really problem in social life

i m frm india basically if u know thn u r sure know dis word dowry witch ppl giving on the tym of marry wth her daughter as manners ,if u havent thn gurl father will br suffer 4 marry his daughter coz he donot have money and things witch demanded by boy side thn wht happen gurl getting aged n coz in a age of sex if u not get in valid way thn sure will be catch wronge one ,everyday u can see in newspapers some murders n killing of thier sister in law the main resion behind this is only n only dowry who demanding this also a woman who already passes frm these things almost tym(by mother in law),,why not w guy younge age solve these problem of our social life frm witch any way w r also effected ..... now muslim also following this bad manners even this is i think haram frm islam .......
u know in arab country also in muslim marry w boy side giving money or some property as mahar to gurl side this amount sometym much bigger thn this became problem 4 boyside to provide so almost boys r getting old aged coz of this like in india as gurl,,,i think frm islam this is according to thier capacity of boy side not make as a burden and tough to think 4 marry 4 boys side almost 30 yrs they passed in w8ing even nowadays avarage life of human being is going more n more small ....this is increasing sex n diveroce in our socaity coz in the main age they r away frm sex so later they making more n not sataisfy easily....
and 3rd one they r following faishon of old aged marry in some of country they boy should be made home or flate its not a easy job even so not easy to marry ,,,,in our country even boy is in well job but family making late to permit him 4 marry coz of some resion ,,,,these ol resion increasing problem in social life n increasing sexxxx n diveroce
its rtue as a human being everybody like sex but in a gud n safe way not lyk this everyday wth diffrnt person
bring a innocent kid to suffer in this world without name of his father n wihout love n careness frm his incomplate mother when a woman ownself not complete

how they give thier careness n love to that child also problem in her own marry n sometym this is coz of diveorce ,,,,
sex illegal is a dieases of social life n also coz of many other dengerious dieases ..................

may be some word incorrect coz my english not to gud ,,,if u got thankx to read ,,,xori 4 problem,,,,
tc
safi ..........

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